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We were super happy. There was no crisis. And neither of us had ever spoken about emigration. But underneath all those logical thoughts was one simple question: What do we want now? Not based on five years ago. Not on everything we had already built. Not from the fear of “throwing something away.” Just: what feels right in this moment?

What does personal coaching actually change? This blog takes a slightly tongue-in-cheek look at the coaching industry and the concrete shifts clients experience: more clarity, confidence, direction, self-awareness and control. No manifestation gurus, no magic tricks — just honest reflection, sharp questions, humour and real change.

In Spain I often joke:“In Dutch I’m hilarious, in English I’m funny, and in Spanish… just nice.” It sounds lighthearted, but it touches on something real: it’s incredibly hard to be yourself in a new language and culture. You think you’re starting with a clean slate. New place. New language. New you. But no. Because wherever you go, you simply bring yourself along. With all your patterns, doubts, beliefs, and old baggage. It feels like you can start again. But you don’t a